Recently, one of my fairly successful author friends said to me, “Boy, I’m starting to understand why so many movie stars and rock stars turn to drugs and alcohol.” My friend has worked really hard to be a successful author, and her last a course in miracles has gotten a lot of attention. She is thrilled to watch her book sales steadily climb, but at the same time, she sometimes cringes when the phone rings and she sees the caller I.D. is a bookstore asking for another sixty books she then has to sign and lug down there, or when she gets yet another request to speak to a group because she has so much to do. Many of us long for such problems, but we all know the feeling of guilt, the feeling that we should be doing more to promote our book. If you don’t know those feelings, my guess is you’re not trying too hard to sell your book and it’s not selling very well.
Whether authors are selling books by the truckload or one at a time, they are constantly being told by local author groups, bloggers, publications, publishing experts, and even me, about all the ways they can improve the marketing of their books. The lists are endless-what to do with your website, your press kit, get a book video made, go on a blog tour, call bookstores, talk to local groups, improve your SEO, send out marketing postcards, attend book expos, join an authors association, and on and on and on. All you could do can be overwhelming, but it doesn’t mean an author should give up.
Once people start to respond to your efforts, you may start to feel successful, but it also means you’ll be faced with more work and demands on your time. You’ll be busy fulfilling book orders, going to speak to groups, being invited to be a guest on a radio or TV show, and wondering when you’re ever going to find time to write the next book. We don’t want any author to turn to drink or pills-despite his fame, F. Scott Fitzgerald is not the author to model ourselves after.
So here are a few simple tips for keeping things in perspective:
1. Create a To Do List: I recommend you use a spreadsheet because you can easily move things around by cutting and pasting cells. You might lay it out as a calendar format with what you need to do each day, but I think it’s better just to list what you have to do. Put at the top the urgent things like mailing out postcards about your new book, and at the bottom the less urgent things such as an update to your website that isn’t as important. By creating a list and prioritizing what needs to be done, you will feel more organized and better able to cope with everything you have to do. If things keep getting pushed down the To Do list and you don’t get to them, it may turn out they aren’t that important.
2. Commit to a (Flexible) Schedule: Schedules can be difficult to keep, but if you promise yourself you’ll work on promoting your book every day from 10am-Noon, and you’ll write everyday from 1-4pm, try your best to keep that schedule. A schedule is a goal. Try to keep it, but be flexible within reason.
3. Learn How to Deal with Interruptions: Don’t just ignore interruptions. Don’t not answer the phone because it’s your writing time, but make a decision about what interruptions are acceptable and which ones aren’t. If your friend calls to chat during your writing time, you might want to let the call go to voicemail. But if a bookstore calls because it wants more books, you might feel the need to take the call. If your writing time is 1-4, take the call, finish your writing time, and then deliver the order.
4. Schedule Events: The holidays can be especially busy for authors since most books are bought in the months leading up to Christmas. Many authors I know have book signings every weekend between Thanksgiving and Christmas. Just remember to pace yourself. Give yourself a break by clearing your calendar of all events in January when book sales are lower anyway. In the summer, schedule a weekend at home for every weekend you schedule events so you can keep your balance.
5. Reward Yourself: Don’t take the world on your shoulders. If you’re at an all day event and you sell a lot of books, you can go out for dinner rather than making dinner at home. If you didn’t get time to write that day because you were at a conference, you don’t have to write that evening. Count it as having put in your time and watch a movie instead.
6. Enjoy the Moment: Do your best to be in the moment. Too often authors are running to get one task done so they can move to the next. I know one author who told me she was really stressed about her first book signing until a friend reminded her that it’s “supposed to be fun.” Now she makes sure she always has fun. She puts herself in the right frame of mind so she enjoys whatever event she is attending.